“Our ROAS needs to be 12.”
“Says who?”
“Us. It’s what we need to make money.”

I have a version of this conversation most weeks. It sounds like a target. It’s actually a wish.

The market sets the price. You don’t.

A customer in your category costs what it costs. The auction doesn’t care what you need.

It’s like walking into a Porsche dealership with ten dollars and demanding a Porsche. You can be very clear about your budget. You’re still not driving home in one.

So the useful question isn’t “what return do we need?” It’s “what can we afford to pay for a customer, and can we actually buy one for that?”

Work out your real number

Your break-even return comes from your margin. Not from a benchmark, and not from a competitor’s screenshot. Here is the simple version.

  1. 1

    Take your margin after product, shipping and fees

    If you keep 50 cents of every dollar a customer pays, your margin is 50%.

  2. 2

    Divide 1 by that margin

    1 divided by 0.5 is 2. That is your break-even return. Below it, every sale loses money.

  3. 3

    Ask what a customer is worth over time

    If customers come back, you can afford to pay more for the first order. If they don’t, you can’t.

A target you can’t hit isn’t ambition. It’s a budget that burns.

When what a customer costs is higher than what they’re worth, more ads don’t close the gap. The offer does. A higher average order. A bundle. A reason to come back. It’s the same reason three agencies can find three different problems and none of them fix it.

One founder we worked with was paying about $400 to win a customer worth $55 to him. We didn’t chase a better return from his ads. We lifted his average order from $69 to $137 first.

  • 0.17× return on ads in January
  • 2.61× return on ads in August
  • 1.20× his break-even
  • $137 average order, up from $69

This is the first thing we check in a Validation Sprint, before anyone touches the ads.

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About the author

Mareike Niedermeier

Mareike Niedermeier is the founder and CEO of Sales Savvy Online and the creator of Survivable Distance, a theory of ecommerce viability. Since 2019 her team has worked with more than 200 ecommerce brands. The Australian Business Journal named her a Top Ten Marketer in Australia.

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